Hopeful Homage
Friday, May 22, 2026
MBA, Gen Z, and the Collapse of Common Sense
Monday, May 11, 2026
The Weight of a 10th Class Marksheet
In India, 10th result day is not result day.
It is national emergency.
Whole house atmosphere changes like India lost World Cup final.
The mother prayed to every god humanity had ever created, unsure which one might still be available to hear her.
Father walking like finance minister before budget, calculating the donation to be paid if the marks are less.
Relatives charging phone battery fully to call and ask “Kitna percentage aaya beta?”
Then comes the famous paper.
The Marksheet.
One small paper decides whether child is “future of nation” or “shame of famalies WhatsApp group.”
My neighbour’s son Yash got 51.46%.
Bas.
Finished.
According to society, boy was now officially useless.
Father looked at marksheet like doctor checking a biopsy report.
“51.46???”
Sharma ji ka beta got 96!
Even your cousin who still counts on fingers scored more than you
Poor boy standing quietly.
Now reality is Yash was not bad child.
He was respectful.
Helped old people.
Never abused anyone.
Did not roam drunk at midnight.
Fed street dogs.
But sadly marksheet has no column for:
“Good human being.”
Boy loved soccer.
Every evening he played football with full passion. Running, sweating, smiling.
First time in whole day he looked alive.
But in Indian families, if child enjoys something too much, immediately it becomes “career destroyer.”
Football? Waste of time.
Music? Waste of time.
Art? Waste of time.
Sleeping? Waste of time.
By that logic, even a child breathing would probably be called a waste of time.
Only acceptable hobby in these house is “study more”.
After result, parents started behaving like boy committed financial scam.
TV, Mobile, Soccer and Happiness banned
Suddenly every relative became education expert.
“Engineering karao.”
“Science lelo.”
“Commerce has no scope.”
“Arts toh losers lete hai.”
Most funny thing:
Half these uncles still cannot open PDF without calling their children.
But advice has unlimited supply.
Parents say:
“We are worried about your future.”
Correct. Concern is real.
But many times concern quietly becomes ego competition.
Marks are not only for child anymore.
It becomes family social status.
Parents don’t want percentage.
They want bragging rights in weddings, family parties and society.
“Hamare beta got 96.”
Then another uncle enters:
“Our daughter got 97.”
Then one aunty comes from nowhere:
“My son studying in Canada.”
At this point samosa becomes uncomfortable.
Nobody asks child:
“What do YOU want?”
Because Indian parenting sometimes works like government tender:
Lowest emotional understanding wins.
Coz parents think child is project.
First they decide career before child even grows moustache.
Doctor. Engineer. IAS. Repeat.
If child says:
“I like sports.”
Parents react like child announced:
“I am converting to other religion.”
Truth is every child is different.
Some are good in studies.
Some in sports.
Some in business.
Some in creativity.
Some simply learn slowly.
But Indian system treats every child like type C charger.
One size fits all.
A fish, monkey, elephant, and penguin all standing for same exam.
Then society says:
“See, monkey topped again.”
Wonderful system.
Yash’s father later realized something important.
He was not angry because son failed.
He was angry because his own dreams failed years ago.
My question to such parents is simple:
How many times did they actually sit down and try to understand their child’s syllabus themselves?
How often did they calmly discuss which subject the child was struggling with, what challenges he faced, and how they could help him improve?
And many times, even when the child gathers courage to ask doubts, the response is “Go join private tuition.”
Some parents outsource teaching, then expect emotional connection, confidence, and excellent results to arrive automatically.
Many parents unknowingly put their unfinished dreams on children’s shoulders.
Children are not second-hand versions of parents.
They are separate humans.
Parenting is not dictatorship.
Parenting means teaching child respect, empathy, discipline, and helping them understand different career options.
Guide them. Don’t control them like remote-control car.
Because fear can force child to study.
But only support can help child grow.
Years later, Yash might improve in studies too.
Not because of pressure.
Because finally someone listened to him instead of comparing him with Sharma ji’s entire bloodline.
And honestly, after few years nobody remembers your 10th percentage.
But every child remembers how their parents behaved on result day.
Friday, May 8, 2026
Problems & Solutions
In India, whenever something goes wrong, we often hear familiar explanations like Its Karma or God wished it or Fate cannot be changed.
Problem solved. Nobody responsible. No counter questions asked.
Because if everything is destiny, then governance becomes optional.
But still someone has to be accountable, then comes the term “Act of God” it appeared first in 1581, in the landmark property case Wolfe v. Shelley.
But India has already created a system, who else could be held accountable ?
A bridge collapses? Karma.
No jobs? Fate.
Hospital has no oxygen? God’s plan.
At this point, accountability is probably an endangered species.
A student studies for years, gets a degree, learns coding, improves skills, and still cannot find work.
Society says: “Maybe luck is not supporting him.”
No uncle, maybe the economy is not supporting him.
Industries automate jobs, quality education remains inaccessible, skill gaps increase, and millions compete for limited opportunities.
But instead of questioning economic policy, we ask for “Kundali”.
Apparently GDP now depends on planetary alignment.
Food adulteration has become a competitive sport here.
Milk contains chemicals, Fecal coliforms (मल-मूत्र).
Spices contain colours that can probably paint the entire city.
Some ingredients banned abroad still happily enjoy Indian citizenship.
And where are food safety authorities?
Probably busy testing whether water is wet.
Weak inspections, corruption, and delayed action allow unsafe products into the market while citizens slowly become laboratory experiments.
Test rules exist beautifully on paper. Like my New Year resolution.
But when health problems appear & people die.
Its God calling all the good souls.
& we don’t care if there was detergent mixed in turmeric or poison.
Dirty water spreads disease because sanitation systems fail, drainage is broken, and public health infrastructure is underfunded.
But instead of fixing pipelines, we organize motivational speeches about faith on weekends.
We will take time to understand, some diseases are not divine mysteries.
They are literally bacteria with government support.
Cities did not become polluted overnight.
Years of weak regulation, poor urban planning, and environmental neglect created air quality so dangerous that breathing now feels like chain-smoking.
Children develop respiratory problems.
Adults normalize coughing like it’s a personality trait.
Yet somehow pollution becomes part of modern life.
We never expect its as a policy failure.
Fuel prices rise.
Food prices rise.
Rent rises.
Stress rises.
Only salaries remain committed to simplicity.
Meanwhile, large corporations receive incentives, tax benefits, and policy support while ordinary citizens receive financial advice from relatives “Learn to adjust.”
India’s economy also feels like a “caste-based reservation system”
Where middle class slogs & pay both direct and indirect taxes & crony capitalist enjoy favourable loans, government contracts and tax rebates.
India somehow manages both hunger and obesity simultaneously.
Many people survive on high-carb diets because protein-rich and healthy food is expensive or poorly understood.
Nutrition education is so weak that people know IPL statistics better than basic health science.
Then lifestyle diseases increase and society says it’s because of bad habbits.
Yes, because decades of poor awareness magically disappear through morning yoga WhatsApp forwards.
Hospital lacks beds.
Ambulance arrives late.
No oxygen supply.
Overworked staff.
Weak infrastructure.
Patient dies.
Society: “God called him.”
Convenient.
Nothing protects incompetence better than spiritual outsourcing.
A strong healthcare system saves lives.
A weak system creates avoidable deaths and then labels them destiny.
Parents now spend massive portions of their income on private education because trust in many government schools has weakened.
Education was supposed to reduce inequality.
Instead, it now comes with EMI options.
Parents are basically paying premium membership fees so their child can learn English with air conditioning.
Instead of blaming God or personal financial struggles, We should question the government about increasing the number of schools in every district, especially when the middle class is already paying substantial taxes.
Faith, spirituality, and religion help many people emotionally. That may be real or important.
But potholes are not repaired through meditation.
Pollution does not disappear through bhajans.
Adulterated food does not become organic after prayer.
Human-made problems require human-made solutions.
Many problems are connected to policy failures, weak enforcement, corruption, poor planning, inequality, and public apathy.
But societies improve only when citizens ask uncomfortable questions government, demand accountability.
Instead of treating every preventable problem as God’s wish or Karma.
As long as hero worship and blind religious worship continue in India, governments will keep taking advantage of people.
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